I met two people in GuangZhou 1989, they palyed the same wallet game to me. I told them, the wallet is yours, it's not mine, do not play this stupid game in 90's.
I love China, I hope my great China getting better everyday!
But some Chinese don't like to face the facts, just like they are not happy with you, if you told them their kids have some problems.
For my point, if we can not change others, at lease we can educate our children, let them know what is good to do. I always tell my daughter "nice to people".
We have a business in Canada, sometimes my 10 years old daughter with me in business hour, I show my daughter how to greeting and thanks customers. My daughter found most of Chinese customers no response for your greeting, and no thanks before they leave.
I asked my daughter, if you met these customers, do you feel comfortable, answer is not.
So Chinese folks, we need improve, we can to it better!
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Ali29
2007-08-17 00:45
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恐怕你很少回国。我到加拿大六年了,每年都回去。第一次回国,忍不住说了一句:“ 怎么这样儿?”以后再回去就没这种感觉了。我很爱中国也爱加拿大。我们夫妇旅游了几乎整个加拿大,非常美丽。我上学两年,加拿大政府贷款,我心里非常感谢。现在语言没问题,更感到这是一个好地方。回到中国,也倍感亲切,这是生我养我的土地。我爱这块土地,更爱生活在这里的人民!写到这里,我禁不住落泪了。我的父母,我的兄弟姊妹, 我的同学,我的朋友。。。都在这块土地上。回国的确看到听到你提到的现象,但我都能平和地对待。
这就是我的祖国,有时我很同情。我为我的家人朋友祷告,我也为中国祷告。
我是一个没心计的人,也曾多次遭到同胞的算计。但是我还是没该改变我的想法和看法。在中国我做我能做的,尽我的力帮助别人。我会小心地过街,因为汽车要让我的话,它们就开不动了;很多的人扑过来非要卖东西给我,我会买下一两样. 因为他们向我要钱我都会给, 何况他们是卖东西; 我会告诉我的孩子, 守又脏又臭的厕所的人很可怜, 因为他们要生存, 要珍惜现在拥有的一切. 我会把垃圾仍到垃圾桶里, 也会帮别人仍; 我不靠近正在抽烟的人和大声说话的人. 我觉得我并不比国内的人好, 但我比他们幸运. 我能来到加拿大, 生活在一个好的环境里. 而他们想都想不到.
我在别人眼里是个傻子也是个好人, 我有很多朋友, 我愿意这样.
希望我的分享能帮到你, 做一个自信而又充满爱心的华侨.
It took me hours to finish the article. My Chinese typing is very lousy. Actually, I have more to say. I would like to discuss more with you. When the problem solved, we could enjoy life. Life is flower and love is honey.
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2007-08-17 00:39
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It took me hours to finish the article. My Chinese typing is very lousy. Actually, I have more to say. I would like to discuss more with you. When the problem solved, we could enjoy life. Life is flower and love is honey.
I don't know what is the English word for 素质. Should be close to "dicsipline". Talking about dicsipline, German and Japanese are the test in the world.
一个崩溃的华侨:中国人素质实在太差了