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写这篇文章的人铁定是个东北人。东北大城市里的人惯男孩子比山东的农村还要厉害。我是山东人,以前认识一个男朋友就是东北黑龙江的,现在想想这人我还恨恨的,这人欠揍欠到家了。顺带瞧不起他父母,儿子都教不好,失败。
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移来移去,太辛苦了。
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垃圾技术移民就是罗唆,相呆就呆,不相呆滚蛋,顺便把职位留给新垃圾,就这么简单!
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有时候想念在中国的时光 但一次长途的迁徙 不是那么容易就决定的 尤其是像我这样 目前在这里打累膊工 回去年纪又大了 工作也一样没着落 回去谈何容易呀
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因为我的血管里只有中国人的血, 没有象某些人似的搀杂了. 你们你们的称呼中国人.操******臭杂种! 我有两个国家. 一个是我的祖国,不论她怎样我都爱她! 另一个是加拿大, 她允许和鼓励我同时热爱几个国家,而不是把爱加拿大和仇恨自己的祖国相提并论, 光这一点就同样值得我去爱!
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最初由 来丫 发布: 说的更好! 我注意到楼主说到请长假回的国,可以看出楼主一家至少在离开加拿大时的决心并不大,并非是那种坚决要回国至少走的时候不打算再回来的那种海归。所谓的夫妻同爱好中国文化历史,相信也不是什么决定因素,否则也不会轻易又回加拿大。所以我不知道他们为什么海归?更不知道为何又回来?只是觉得若如楼主所说,光因为孩子不适应好像很牵强。我相信很多人都是这样,对自己的选择说不出个所以然,只能尘埃落定后,才有空给自己找个自己能接受的理由。安慰自己而已。到最后,连自己都相信自己说的,事情就这么过去了。 我能理解,只是也觉得挺可笑的。我可能有点刻薄,见谅。
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最初由 justpaste 发布: I am actually enjoying my Canadian life. Hi, Would you mind we chat tomorrow afternoon 3: 00pm tomrrow. I have to pick my son. Thanks for sharing your expr.
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最初由 justpaste 发布: I am actually enjoying my Canadian life. I enjoy the life here too. I have moved to many place. I like here the most. But when I think about him. I start having headache.
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最初由 sea shell 发布: I am back. If you didn't back to China, would you be insisting to stay in Canada without regreting? I am actually enjoying my Canadian life.
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最初由 sea shell 发布: I wish I can discuss about this with you deeply if you don't mind. I need to leave my desk for 15 minutes. I am back. If you didn't back to China, would you be insisting to stay in Canada without regreting?
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最初由 sayyousayme 发布: 我看了楼主的这篇和前面一篇讲你女儿上学的两个帖子。我觉得你完全可以在中国多住一段时间让孩子更努力地去适应,一个才5岁的男孩,在加拿大应该是jk,或者根本还没有正式上过什么学校,正应该是对新鲜事物非常好奇的年纪,却对中国似乎还是个北京这样的大城市,产生如此强烈的抵触情绪,一开始可以理解,时间长了还没有改善,而且一直在父母身边,不同于那些完全改换环境的离开父母的孩子,或许可以考虑孩子是否适应能力有问题?楼主这样全家围着个小男孩折腾,也太宠孩子了,毕竟这里面还有老公事业发展问题和另一个孩子适应情况如何的牵扯(你在关于女儿的帖子里讲到女儿适应得非常好,“ 期末的时候已经双百,她自己也乐得不得了”),这样似乎对老公和女儿都不公平,太迁就就是溺爱了。 楼主这样做,看似为孩子考虑,其实为孩子考虑,当初就不该走,失去好的发展机会是可惜,但是有得有失嘛。可是回国后又开始考虑孩子了,然后又回加拿大。这不是瞎折腾吗?这下是只失不得了。当然大家也都可以这样安慰自己,任何经历都是财富。 我也面对过相同问题,但是我是坚持让我女儿自己努力适应,当然我会支持她。我女儿现在也大了,她告诉我有时她更需要的是引导而不是迁就。 说的更好!
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写得真好!
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最初由 justpaste 发布: I recommend you not I wish I can discuss about this with you deeply if you don't mind. I need to leave my desk for 15 minutes.
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最初由 sea shell 发布: Oh my god, I have a daughter 14 years old too. Also I have a 5 years old son. Should I try? I recommend you not
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最初由 justpaste 发布: Actually, I satyed in China for one year, tried very hard to convience my daughter (14 years old) but failed. I flew back every three months, very tired. And to be honest, I am starting to dislike the situation in China. My personal experence, short term in China, everything is wonderful, long term wise, you will get nervious and it will drive you mad. Oh my god, I have a daughter 14 years old too. Also I have a 5 years old son. Should I try?
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回去与否永远是年轻人的话题(小于40 岁),对于年纪大一点的移民来说是不会回去的,除非他们退休。
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最初由 sea shell 发布: You meant you backed to China with your kids for a year? How old are they and they went to school in China? Sorry, just curious because I am so confuse my situation now. I want to try back to China but I can't. Actually, I satyed in China for one year, tried very hard to convience my daughter (14 years old) but failed. I flew back every three months, very tired. And to be honest, I am starting to dislike the situation in China. My personal experence, short term in China, everything is wonderful, long term wise, you will get nervious and it will drive you mad.
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最初由 justpaste 发布: Yes, you are right. I have the same situation with you. So I returned back to Canada after one year. But I would say I would rather stay in Canada after my one year's experence. You meant you backed to China with your kids for a year? How old are they and they went to school in China? Sorry, just curious because I am so confuse my situation now. I want to try back to China but I can't.
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我看了楼主的这篇和前面一篇讲你女儿上学的两个帖子。我觉得你完全可以在中国多住一段时间让孩子更努力地去适应,一个才5岁的男孩,在加拿大应该是jk,或者根本还没有正式上过什么学校,正应该是对新鲜事物非常好奇的年纪,却对中国似乎还是个北京这样的大城市,产生如此强烈的抵触情绪,一开始可以理解,时间长了还没有改善,而且一直在父母身边,不同于那些完全改换环境的离开父母的孩子,或许可以考虑孩子是否适应能力有问题?楼主这样全家围着个小男孩折腾,也太宠孩子了,毕竟这里面还有老公事业发展问题和另一个孩子适应情况如何的牵扯(你在关于女儿的帖子里讲到女儿适应得非常好,“ 期末的时候已经双百,她自己也乐得不得了”),这样似乎对老公和女儿都不公平,太迁就就是溺爱了。 楼主这样做,看似为孩子考虑,其实为孩子考虑,当初就不该走,失去好的发展机会是可惜,但是有得有失嘛。可是回国后又开始考虑孩子了,然后又回加拿大。这不是瞎折腾吗?这下是只失不得了。当然大家也都可以这样安慰自己,任何经历都是财富。 我也面对过相同问题,但是我是坚持让我女儿自己努力适应,当然我会支持她。我女儿现在也大了,她告诉我有时她更需要的是引导而不是迁就。
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最初由 sea shell 发布: Because your children are still little kids, I would say you better follow your husband if you love him. However, if you have a big kids like me, I would not know how to do. That is my situation. Yes, you are right. I have the same situation with you. So I returned back to Canada after one year. But I would say I would rather stay in Canada after my one year's experence.
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Because your children are still little kids, I would say you better follow your husband if you love him. However, if you have a big kids like me, I would not know how to do. That is my situation.
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一篇真实,感人的文章。顶一下! 其实去/留加拿大,有很多不同的原因。每个家庭和个人都应该根据自己的情况做出决择。之所以在这个题目下有那么多争辩,甚至骂人,是因为把它和政治,体制扯在一起。如果这篇文章加了一段有关民主制度和多了张选票之感想,呵呵,。。。
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it would be the place to stay.
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我与你碰上了同一个问题,我都不知何去何从?
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最初由 li331 发布: 一片冰心博客:回国一年札记之感想篇 Up.
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So agree,.....
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