It should be an article to talk about your feelings and confusing, and discuss the answers with the people with similar situation, somehow, while reading this articles, my impressing is more like that you are bragging - like what you studied, how much you made, or what kind of places you went, even your appearance.
But if thinking twice, you don't really have too much thing to brag about. Level 4 or 6 are nothing, there are tons of people from China speak fluent English. Ask yourself, is your English that good that you can understand every line in a movie? Can you respond quickly when your co-workers made a joke? Even say if your English is close to native speakers’, it's just a language, the fundamental tool to communicate. So, I am asking you here, what can you offer?
Don't get me wrong; I can totally understand where the puzzles came from. I am from Shanghai and had good education and excellent jobs before I came here too. I understand there probably are lots of disappointments here. But why mention going to Star Buck or Ikea as a way to show your standards there, cause for my understanding, they are not high-end shopping there either. Swimming or tennis, they should be hobbies, not something to brag about. Why does that make you special?
I feel you are phony. Can't you deny one of the reasons you married your husband at that time was that he was abroad? One day's knowing each other in face then got married the 2nd day? - That's just outrageous.
I think you should first look back your life a little bit, to ask yourself what you have been looking for, and if you are still on the right path on it? If you think you are, work harder, and change your attitude. If you think your husband is a good guy, give him more support, have more communications with each other. I don’t think it's an unreasonable request for their family to ask you to consider to sell the house over there, because you have to focus to settle in one place. The reason you haven't done so maybe because even at that time you were not sure if immigrating to Canada is the right choice for you!
So I have to say, you have to adjust your own attitude, and give yourself some time to think, and then it should come to a point to make a decision, either give it a trial, stay here, and make a happy family, or don't waste both of your time any more, go back and peruse what you think you want to peruse. But before you make the new decision, ask yourself, are you prepared for the fast changing job market in China? Otherwise, there might be another disappointment waiting for you.
Again, don’t get me wrong, actually I kind of like you, cause the similar background we had. And maybe you are a hard working girl and request yourself more. But your attitude and tone are the problems.
最初由 企鹅 发布：
加拿大已经把你磨的锐气全无,可怜啊!只是活着,有你不多,没你不少. 呵呵! 😜
😠
Do you want to be Liao Chung-xing or Li Jia-cheng ?
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最初由 bill zj 发布：
Gee
(转贴) 公派出国人员评论加拿大中国移民
上网看了好一阵，就数加拿大的中国移民最热闹，热爱加拿大说加拿大好的有之，痛恨加拿大说加拿大坏的有之，偶尔说说两边风凉话的有之，骗人做传销的有之，说美国比加拿大好的有之，鄙视他人找不到工作只有做labour的有之，装模作样称成功者有之。千奇百怪之人你都可以在网上看到。很纳闷，你们这帮人，中国大陆移民，都有什么好吵的，你们都是些什么人？
很清楚，你们原来可能都不错，出国以后因为专业不同，机遇不同，在工作质上，在收入上就会有所差别。其实，你们都是在海外打工的，如同中国乡下民工，之间没有本质的区别。不懂你们有什么好抱怨的？有什么是你们值得炫耀的？
加拿大好不好？肯定好！这是对当地人来讲。对移民好不好，每人有自己的看法。硬撑着说好的，有自己的原因。你们最好闭上挖苦他人的臭嘴，对着镜子照照自己是个什么再发言，最多是一海外技术民工，想回国工作还不定有人要。你们如叫花子笑讨饭的，很悲惨。你们就老老实实做个加拿大底层公民，享自己的清福去。
说加拿大不好的民工，也有自己的原因。你们就不要叫苦连天。不好，拎起行回国呀，“此地不留爷，自有留爷处”。怕回去找不到工作生活不如意，就闷不啃声老死他乡不就得了？幻想美国更有机会的民工也不要白日做梦，加拿大对你不好，美国就会那么好？简直too naive，简直就是乞丐心态。
骗人的，有本事就去骗白人，别骗同胞。可能你们结结巴巴的英文还不中用。
你们这帮加拿大移民，都是特定时代的畸形儿，都注定不会有什么好结果的。从历史上看，叛徒都有好结果吗？
爷们正宗外派中国人就看不起你们这帮满世界乱窜象盲流样的乌合之众。
看样子，你们还要吵下去。。。
你们这帮人，真的是没治了。刚教训过你们，就当了耳边风。
看看，又跳出几个小丑，号称自己是成功者。你们这帮“成功者”最多是还有口技术饭吃的白痴。你们比和你们吵架的loser更让人感到恶心，他们起码还有做人最起码的尊严，还有觉醒。你们就不一样，海外讨了一口饭，就在国人面前说成功，不感到寒酸和无耻，服了你们这帮蠢货。
再说一遍，你们这帮加拿大移民是没有什么出路了，加拿大好或不好你们都注定要报憾客死他乡。你们年纪已经一大把，还在找什么工作，还在点头哈腰keep住工作，还要相互攀比相互贬损，还在探求生存。和你们同龄的受过高等教育的人如今在国内早已挑大梁，在探讨如何享受生活。你们在国人的眼里太可怜可悲。今后有空回家的时候，就不要说自己是从加拿大回来，因为你们不是普通的人，你们是一群在海内外注定都要垫底的老掉牙的畸形儿。 😜 😜
The person who said this, and whoever agree with this, are really ****-heads and Numb-nuts.
人在异乡：来加10个月了 越待越苦闷……