不容易：一个上海女孩的艰难留学生活

现在中国高考都要落榜的学生，不是自己不要学，太懒就是太笨。

看来家长们对独生子女的教育与培养必须从小时候（12、3岁）就开始抓起，太溺爱就有可能害了孩子，使他们将来不能很快地适应复杂的环境。 现在的孩子已经够可以了，与40年前上山下乡、插队落户知识青年的艰难程度根本无法相比。老一辈人应该经常跟他们讲讲那些故事以帮助他们树立起克服困难的信心和勇气。

it might have been better if those people was even more poor. It would then force them to find part-time jobs. It would fill up their so-called lonlyness times and emptiness. They would learn how to deal to locals, learn english faster and integrate and mingle with the locals. And they would make friends at work if they learned to improve their EQ.