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一样天空两般世界 富裕华人移民有增

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what does that mean? interesting. everybody need quietly, comprehansively thinking for their own case, carfully planning, firmly excuiting. if still poor, then looking forward for your next generation. I concluded myself, ability training start from very young stage, by hardworking, thinking. lucky palys an important role too.
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最初由 禹良 发布: 一切都会有因果报应的。 吓死!玄而又玄的东西最吓人! 😝
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我相信,在多伦多绝对有一个看不见的华人顶层(指的是富裕程度,并非职位),不过可能人数没有纽约多。这个顶层的人构成比较复杂,他们一般不愿意抛头露面。这是有很多原因的,不详细分析了。 如果有机构真的想掏他们的钱,得找到具有说服力的理由,而且建立透明的基金管理机制,也许他们会匿名捐款的。当然,承头的人还要有一定的名望才行。 以上是我的猜测。但愿真的如此。不过一般说来,中国人对于慈善事业,不太热心。“自己好了,那是自己的本事强、运气好、福气旺,没必要感谢与回馈任何人;别人受苦受难,那是他们没本事、运气差、福气弱,没有我的责任。”这是很多富裕了的现代中国人的心理旁白。 🚬
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最初由 陆海 发布: It is obvious that the reporter had no profound sight in society. It shows a tendency that the article was written for those new leaders of some new groups for the lack of funding from those so-called rich Chinese immigrants, or at least, the reporter was in the shoes of those new leaders. ... 如果要是把这些文字直译成汉语,就太“一针见血”了。 真是,一种语言内涵着一种风格。 呵呵~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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It is obvious that the reporter had no profound sight in society. It shows a tendency that the article was written for those new leaders of some new groups for the lack of funding from those so-called rich Chinese immigrants, or at least, the reporter was in the shoes of those new leaders. If you want to get money or time from some people, you certainly need at least to address some concerns of them or have compelling business case to show that you can do something worth to be funded. Even the new immigrants are complaining the ability of some new community groups: said they couldn’t solve pragmatic problems, and what they mostly provided were low-cost, therefore usually low-quality entertaining activities. According to the article, those rich immigrants generally have been here for many years. Certainly they have developed their friendship circles and they have their ways to get entertainments. How can the reporter or those group leaders expect these ‘rich’ people to get out their orbits to involve in something that delivers nothing but wasting time and money. As I already addressed in another post, people have common interests, especially for those people who come from same area and culture, there would be more interests of common able to be shared than in a group of people from different backgrounds and cultures. But, have those leaders of community groups figured out those common interests and the methodologies to integrate them? The realty seems saying no. We are not in short of money; we are in short of leadership, in short of visionary. It is easy to be imaged that rich immigrants would met new immigrants in their routine life and some of them had relatives or friends newly migrated to Canada. They helped them to settle down and some other things. So, it is easy to get this kind of conclusion that either the reporter was not doing thinking by him or herself, or he or she was biased. The tendency of this article resulted in avoiding to address fundamental problems associated with those new community groups but put blames on other people instead. It will not help anything, but just worsen the relationships between our own people.
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看了文章本人也有些感慨.自问本人也属来加多年,经过多年努力达到今天的衣食无忧的水平.但对于华人社区的活动参与很少.这也可能是在这里生活了较长时间, 和大多数人一样,更多的享受家庭和个人的生活, 而很少去过问其他的人的事情.就像是你不会去主动问人家有什莫困难,做什莫工作, 挣多少钱.这和这里的生活习惯有关.但并不等于说我们不关心社会,麻木.我记得当知道附近人家着火后,多少认识的不认识的人都会主动的捐钱捐物.当知道有人因事故身亡,多少素不相识的人送去鲜花去慰问.我想如果新移民,如果遇到困难要主动地到社区,教会或向朋友提出.如果你坐在家里,没有人会知道你遇到困难需要帮助.如果人家知道的话,我想会有很多人乐于帮助你.还有一点我认为亨重要,作为新移民要勇于走出去,不要仅限于华人圈子里.一旦你走出去,你会发现天空远比你想象的要大.
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有的人看到初来者无力改变找工和生活压力大的困境,不想办法帮忙,还会暗中讥笑,也许认为人家无能。竟忘记自己现在的安稳和舒适,离不开机遇的厚待和其他人的帮助。 真心希望大家对初来的兄弟们,能帮的帮一下,无力帮忙的在精神上给他们鼓励。
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如果有能力有机会却故意不帮,那叫冷漠。帮倒忙,那叫不是人。中国移民中这两种现象比较普遍。现在富了的人敢说当初没有得到过别人的帮助(国内的国外的)?只想得到不想付出,难道不是不仁吗?人在困难的时候是需要有能力的人拉一把的,愿同胞互相帮助,而不是空谈这个那个的定义。
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帮,赞成、鼓励,不帮,也无可厚非。愿意帮就帮,不愿意帮,也不能说人家“为富不仁”。人要靠自己努力。最让人瞧不起的就是那种整天怨天尤人,不思进取的人。
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我不知道文中所列的大陆人在什么公司工作. 我曾经在TD一个部门和一家制药厂短暂工作过. 华人在中层的很少, 大多数在数据管理和科研部门. 高层我没见过中国人. 在那家制药厂我查了通信录. 有一个中国人做VICE DIRECTOR在科研部.中国人在公司里是很QUUIET的. 地位? 这些中国移民的薪水高是因为行业和北美高学位.我很难想象中国人在加拿大领导加拿大本地人,如果有同等教育背景.外国雇佣人的一个标准是你是否FIT他们的TEAM. 如果你在加拿大大公司工作过,你可以体味文章的可信度.ANYWAY它在为华人打气.但有点MISLEADING. 文中说NEWYORK华人地位高,真是很好笑,我现在在美国.请相信TORONTO是华人势力最大的地方.没有其他种族敢PHYSICALLY欺负中国人. 中国移民找不到工作的原因也在于此.
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最初由 坏男人 发布: 不关心别人,不同情别人,不帮助别人,没有爱心,就是不仁啊. 怎么才称得上“关心别人”、“同情别人”和“帮助别人”?而爱心有多少才是“仁”?生活在文章中提及那个阶层中的人,他(她)们在享受正常人应该有的生活(比如说工作吃喝拉撒睡)之外,还有多少时间和精力可以用来去“关心别人”、“同情别人”和“帮助别人”?要一个人去做勉为其难的事,这又是不是“不仁”?——一句话,去“关心别人”、“同情别人”和“帮助别人”固然是一种值得推崇的高尚的情操,但这不是一个人的社会义务的全部,或者说不是一个人的社会义中务最基本和最重要的部分——虽然这样说有些残酷。说到这里,倒是想到了一句老话——“帮是交情,不帮是本分”——当然,前提是别没去帮人,倒去损人。
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不关心别人,不同情别人,不帮助别人,没有爱心,就是不仁啊.
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最初由 坏男人 发布: 为富不仁啊 怎么“为富不仁”了?愿听其祥。
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为富不仁啊
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我的财富流淌着我自己的血汗,而你的财富则沾染着他人的血汗!
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