与洋女金婚后的悲 华男能娶白人婆吗？

Chinese guy marry a white woman is offen a sad story with many deep reasons: Culture difference, self-esteem, living customs differrence etc. In a word, Western woman usually will be more selfish than oriental guy. Chinese guy don't like white woman for their are too positive, too snobby, too material-focused, and less emotional-bound, and too quick tempered. And they don't like to cook and other housechore, because they think they are the "higher" level of race. If you could, better don't go for a western woman, because they could reduce your longevity, for sure.

六十年的幸福生活不也是跟这‘洋女’吗？还有多少跟’非洋女‘走不到金婚的呢。就这一个例子得出什么种族问题实在可笑。

我想老太这一生已经很完美了，但就是这个原因，她可能觉得生活中少了什么，她没有什么要负责了，她这一生时间也不多了，不要考虑为谁，为面子了，为自己活一回吧，从某种意义上说，也许这样她的一生更精彩。这里没有种族因素。

想了半天的原因都是什么民族，中国人，等等等等，不知道这作者是太民族自卑了，还是咋地？如果要是中国的金婚夫妻离婚，你这篇文也就不存在了吧？ 可惜，作为读者，我看到的完全不是你看见的那些。 她或许只是生活平静太久了，突然在八十岁的时候，对人一见钟情了呢？什么叫死水微澜，说明这老太太，对人生还有追求。中国那么多的老人，在花甲以后，还找小三，和暮年的原配离婚呢，人老太太主动离婚，你就非说人家是洋老太太才会离婚？ 我觉得作者不紧紧作为中国人自卑，更作为中国的男人自卑。

老陈再找个28的不就完了，有什么可抱怨的呢？

凡事都往种族上扯，怎么这么小国鸡肠？中国人也太狭隘了吧？难道白人和白人结婚，就没有婚外情，就没有离婚的？

I don't think the main reason was because the husband was a Chinese. There must be other reasons. Right after I finished my university in the U.S., one of my classmates (he also finished univeristy that summer) parents (both were white people) divorced after more than fifty years of marriage. I was very surprised but I did not want to ask why even I knew the family quite well.