u wanna talk about philosophy, let's do it.
Your argument violates the acceptability criteria of a good argument.
Your example (personal experience) was assuming that what is true of the parts of some whole is therefore true of the whole.
This is a fallacy of composition!
You will never win your argument by using this problematic instance...
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