最初由 小小子儿 发布：
回复：再提两件事，也许是教育的不同吧
俺也提俩件事,
一是在沃尔玛, 一对华人老夫妇推购物车在前边走,后边有一人高马大白人男子,急于想超过去,无奈道窄,那厮用近乎咆哮的声音大喊"xxxx f u c k xxx!" 俺E不大好,但那个词特别刺耳,所以听的真真切切.
二是做TTC,前门两排座位是为老人设计,可看到的却是两三个白人闺女嘻嘻哈哈的打打闹闹稳坐,旁边就站着满头白发快80的中国老人,不忍,于是从后边起身让座给老人.
总结:一句话,哪里都有"傻人",也许华人"不傻的"比例给人感觉多点罢了,但有则改之无则嘉勉这句再正确不过的句子俺窃以为应该针对全人类的,对不? 🙂
说句可能被拍砖的话。我去过美国和澳大利亚，相比较多伦多人，特别是白人素质明显比那两个地方差。比如车上不让座，脚踩座椅，乱仍报纸，乱穿马路，大声喧哗。在那两个国家白人里我几乎没有看到过有这样的行为，但多伦多却有很多。这是我自己经历的感受。
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小小子儿
2005-08-16 13:23
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最初由 没头脑 发布：
再提两件事，也许是教育的不同吧
一是在国内，做缆车上山，同车一个老外其余都是过人，一国人随手扔出一纸屑（吃完东西擦手用的）向山下飘去，老外当即开口，用生硬的中文说“你不该这样做，要保护环境”，当时全体国人都愣住了，每个人都很尴尬。我想换个位置我绝对不会管此闲事
另一个是在不久前，带孩子采草莓，网上都说可以吃饱，于是我们都吃得很开心，除了儿子。他说人家墙上写者只能taste,不能eat,从始至中孩子都没怎么吃，而起对我们的态度让我感觉很不舒服，那是一种类似受到歧视的感觉
想想那个洋人和我儿子是不是都很傻呢
俺也提俩件事,
一是在沃尔玛, 一对华人老夫妇推购物车在前边走,后边有一人高马大白人男子,急于想超过去,无奈道窄,那厮用近乎咆哮的声音大喊"xxxx f u c k xxx!" 俺E不大好,但那个词特别刺耳,所以听的真真切切.
二是做TTC,前门两排座位是为老人设计,可看到的却是两三个白人闺女嘻嘻哈哈的打打闹闹稳坐,旁边就站着满头白发快80的中国老人,不忍,于是从后边起身让座给老人.
总结:一句话,哪里都有"傻人",也许华人"不傻的"比例给人感觉多点罢了,但有则改之无则嘉勉这句再正确不过的句子俺窃以为应该针对全人类的,对不? 🙂
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Wu Suo Wei
2005-08-16 10:54
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Some questions help make sense.
1. Why we always see such a topic in this kind of a web ? Disscussing discrimination, mainstream ? Is there anyone can tell me a definition of mainstream, or discrimination ? Then we can start clear reasoning.
Hope all my Hua Ren friends have more time think about other ....
2. Can I represent Chinese ? Somehow, I can. But not really. Right ? In my view, we are more sensitive to the response of others. In stead of complain other Chinese behavior, Could anyone tell me :
Did you stop them when you see what happen ? Or did you have such a not nice behavior ?
Let's believe in God, and be true to yourself.
I would like change myself and help others to make a change if they want. But I cound't try to fix people. Fix myself is so tough. For example, I don't like this website, but I keep read it and my wife feels unhappy about me to read it. Anyway, it is better than government web of China.
3.Please, use less dirty words and be calm down when you join a discussion. You need respect yourself and be careful with your words. Once you are not calm down, I would like spend my time on Music. Though, I know I download some, it is not good behavior, ....., I am trying to listen to Radio which is free but with commercials. I have to listen to those stuff as
I trade in free music. Is this a good example to show we are
sinful and humanbeing are sinful and we are looking for savior ?
4.I really hope Chinses website can improve quality and provide more helps for readers. After some years reading websites, I finially realized it is a time-killer which helps little for your thinking, langurage skills(Chinese and English), decrease of hatre.....,
5.Could we think in this way:
Do you really care your citizenship, group feeling, or what ever ?
WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS First ! NOT CHINSES FIRST !
HUMAN BEING ARE SIMILAR PHISCALLY, METALLY, but not
spiritually. WE ARE LOOKING FOR EQUALITES in TREATING OTHERS as OURSELVES, WE ARE EXPECTING OTHERS TREATing the same as WE Treat them. THAT IS WHY WE need talk to more local people and learn their habits. But not limit to one or some's view, becasuse there are similar human beings. Care our own behaviour win respect from others, you do need some efforts. If you still have no judgement about what is good and what is wrong, My suggestion is to read bible more and read the books from behavior guilds for youth, citizenship,....
It is a hurry talking. If there is any errors, let me know. Thank you again for reading this.
Love your guys.
我们中国同胞，做人要平等和宽容