If it is over, it is over.
If your daughter loved that boy enough, she would not have given up her love because of you. If she did give up her love because of you, that boy is lucky that he lost a person that he should not have chosen at the first place. Therefore, no one lost in this game, and you do not have to feel bad. As long as you have learned a lesson from this, and never judge people or situations in a over simplified manner.
Wish everyone well.
最初由 hucan 发布：
I think, personally, we might be 贪官 if we had enought power in China. So it is system problem, but personal problem. We are good people now, it does not mean we do not have motivation to become greedy men. I mean that once we got into that situation, we might be worse. Who knows. So it is better not to interfere with the personal affair of next generation. Based on above '明人”的一篇文章, Married with a son of 贪官 may be better than married with anyway of 'them'.
中国的制度是有问题,但并不是任何人有了贪的条件就会成为贪官, 贪官和占公家的便宜有质和量的区别. 有良心的人做官也不会成为贪官.
I think, personally, we might be 贪官 if we had enought power in China. So it is system problem, but personal problem. We are good people now, it does not mean we do not have motivation to become greedy men. I mean that once we got into that situation, we might be worse. Who knows. So it is better not to interfere with the personal affair of next generation. Based on above '明人”的一篇文章, Married with a son of 贪官 may be better than married with anyway of 'them'.
我该这样阻止女儿“嫁”贪官之子吗？