Hi Jane
i am very underistand your feeling. but i feel so sad what you did for your child. before you made decision , you should looking for professional to ask. Now it too later. What's pity for poor baby.
Good luck with you future. Be strong.
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2006-02-05 13:11
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Hi Jane ... It must be very painful experience you have. In my eyes, you have been able to manage surviving in this complete new country, you're a successful person. You're brave enough to make decision for yourself, which some people never dare to do. It's painful to be hurt by the person you wanted to spend your whole life with, it's even more painful after you took 10 years to find out that he didn't deserve since he doesn't know how to love himself even. How many 10 years we have in our whole life? 10 years' youth in exchanged of life wisdom ... I respect your decision, but I don't have right to blame you ex-hubby. I guess he's learning his life lesson too, just he's taking different path or he's still wandering around. He might has a huge dream for his life. It's just hard to believe that dream can come true if every day bills can't even be handled since noboby can avoid this stage before reaching the dream. Particularlly, for the first immigrant generation.... my ESL instructor once said if you look at canadian literature history, its only topic is "survival". After all, glad you're growing up, you're moving on leaving fear behind. Be strong, enjoying life doesn't need too much money ....
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