The boy is mean and ignorant. He should not discuss his friend's problem with parents, nor comment on other family's business.
A open child should share his/her own issue with parents not friend's.
Exactly! Based on my knowledge the westerns also care about their family. Just in the different way. They more emphasize the responsibility and independent, but they never throw their kids on the street once they are 18 years old.
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zhen2005
2011-05-25 12:23
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“这话麦克也说过了，但他的父母认为这样的言论是极不负责的，还告诫他：生活不是按他这种思维来进行的。”
Take you own responsibility and life are not go as your will. I think this is very valuable intrution for the kids. It help they to look for what they want, not asking for parent what they want.
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中华联邦共和国
2011-05-25 11:09
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author be aware. You little baby son is almost a professional scheming and conniving artist. He will say whatever pleases you to get what he wants.
Strongly agree! This is a very typically way some "smart" Chinese kids do. Use some nice words, under the name of " care" or "love", get their parents to pay all their tuition, maybe even their wedding or first house. Then, take care their kids ( the grandkid) for free. All these under the name of " love". When their parents really need their love, who know where are them, may be in the garage?
I am not VERY MUCH care about money, but I don't think there is any problems for kids to do some part time job when their available. It will help their understand the value of money and more respect what their parents did for them. Moreover, it will make their more strong and easy to adapt in the society. I also don't think the parents are sefish if they ask their kids to be independent. It is nothing wrong for people to plan their retire life with their own earning. It is wrong for some Chinese parents to sacrified their retire life just to take care their kids or grandkids.
Every parents love their kids and sometime those love will blind the parents' eyes and stumble their mind. Be aware the author. If you want your son have wonderful life and you have wonderful elderly life, you should not let your son feel that he can get bunch of money and support just by several word.
偷着乐半宿：儿子说他更认可中国父母