最初由 asdffdsa 发布：
上婚姻大学毕业时的一篇论文
My masters thesis is about marriage breakdown.
Guess what! Marital affair is not a statistically significant factor in a divorce. Contrary to common sense, lots of people choose to tolerate affairs to preserve the family. There are 3 theories to explain why we divorce:
1. Poverty. Without a stable finance, no marriage is a happy marriage. Don't tell me love replaces everything, which is not true from a scientific perspective.
2. Bad habits including drugs, drinking and gambling.
3. Verbal abuse. If you want a quick divorce, tell your wife everyday she is ugly or tell your husband every hour he is useless.
I might be wrong, but I got my masters degree.
This is a good essay. As long as the author enjoys her marriage, it doesn't matter if her husband is an alien or not.
However, I also find lots of Chinese women are willing to give in and give up once they find a white alien for a marriage. For example, they may ask if a Chinese guy has a secure career, a house and money, but they won't ask a white guy the same. That's double standard.
There are both good and bad guys amongst Chinese and non Chinese.
移民前后的两次婚姻给我的一点启示