I lend my car for my friend almost 1 year, luckly nothing happend. But all people here talking about never lend car for others, Should I ask for returning...?
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ustoca
2012-05-01 02:36
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如果你朋友出了车祸要赔数百万的时候你就倒霉了.
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寄宿家
2012-04-30 21:44
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I lend my car for my friend almost 1 year, luckly nothing happend. But all people here talking about never lend car for others, Should I ask for returning...?
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MR.JQ
2012-04-30 21:00
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The author is in conflict with herself. On the one hand, she said their relationship is very close, and she trust her friend will return the money soon; While on the other hand, she gave an excuse that she has no money. Everybody knows that even if you don't have some money in saving, but you have the line of credit. If you really want to help, it can't be a problem for you to take out 30 gram if you have property.
Talk about "义"字. I know two brothers they always said western people don't know about "义"字. One time their grandma had problem and they borrowed couple thousand from me. Another time the older brother had car problem and borrowed more than three thousand from me. When I was laid-off, I asked them about the money. They said I should ask their father for the money which they borrowed for their grandma and said nothing about the money for the car.
When I could not find a job for more than 1/2 year, one of my western friends told me that I could live in his basement apartment free until I could find a job (I was single at that time). I think "义"字 has no boundary and it depends on the person.
完全理解作者的感受，国内的亲人朋友觉得借钱或在你家免费短住是很正常的事，我们也经常碰到这样的事，虽然有时不是大数目，但这种事总是叫人烦心，要是拒绝又说你无情不帮，这可能就是中国的国情，人情吧。我现在的方法是用LINE OF CREDIT 的钱而后和他们说利息是多少，到时银行对帐单来了你们自已付，这样他们就少打扰了，说白了都是想借一些无利之钱，要知道，我们可也是还有MORTAGE要还呢。
因为钱我曾失去的朋友：最终又回来了