在多伦多找个男人过日子就那么难吗？

宁缺毋滥，切勿玩火

不论是加拿大还是国内，找个伴儿都难，因为现在的人对对方的要求太高，都是物质上的。 不像我们那个年代，以感情为第一的人很多。

do not think the 12 year old is the problem, the problem is most of the time from the adults. yes, you are very good, but ask yourself, are you ready for the new relationship. In the relationship, you need to give love, and you will receive love. If the man is poor, strugling in a low pay job; if the man is very old, expecting some one to take care of him; if the man is sick, spending a lot of time and money in hospital; if the man has a few kids from the previous marriage, so that he needs to pay a lot of money to his ex-wife...are you going to accept him? Do not ask why no man can accept you, ask you yourself, whether you can accept others? no one is perfect in the world. I know that many women (any ages) will say after marriage, that if she had known early that the man has so so many problems, she would not have married him. 12 years being alone is very tough, then why you can go through that? is there a reason to support that 12 years? if yes, then that reason can explain why you could not meet Mr.Right in the 13th year. i wish good luck. Church, internet on line dating, match making companies, friends may increase the quantity of man you meet. However, whether you can be indenpendently make your own decision, it is all in your own hand.

也许机会、缘分未到。希望好人有好报。

找个有爱心的老外吧，华人多数太现实了，首先都要看对方有无好工作，有无房子和存款，长相如何，即使以上要件都满足，最好还要满足无负担（无孩无老人），不管男女，择偶时基本上都遵循以上定律……无语了……

她面临两种情况:1有能力负担家庭的基本找单身未婚的,选她的可能性很小.2吃软饭的垃圾男或不能负担个人生活的人只有要女人要就行,她原意负担他们吗? 对她来说,找老外或是年龄大的经济好比较合适.

我很同情静的遭遇，但看到的更多的是她的希望。其实静可以选择去一间好的教会去寻求耶稣的帮助。人的爱无论多大，都会有自私的成分在里面。但神的爱却是无限量的。在一间好的教会里，静除了可以认识耶稣，得到永恒的生命之外，也可以有更多的机会结识一些单身的主内弟兄。相信主也一定会为她安排一个全新的鲜活的生命方式。 许多事在人很难，但是在神凡事都能！

不幸的人，同情。。。。

其实也不是那么难，在这里不作赘述，拙文 http://blog.51.ca/u-92818/2012/03/02/ 也许有些帮助。